StellaLuna
Member
Well, I like to classify relationships into 3 categories. It's just my own personal classification, so obviously everyone's gonna have their own spin on it Well, there's casual dating. It is what it is. Serious relationships, which entails 100% commitment and thoughts like marriage are a possibility. And well... Just plain dating, somewhat of a middle ground between both. It's not too serious, where you're thinking about long-term but it's not "just for fun" like casual dating is. You're past the "getting to know" stage of casual dating, and you feel more than just a crush or even lust but serious words like "forever" or "engagement" or even "love" don't have to be thrown around. I guess you can say it's just enjoying the present and all it has to offer. Meh, just my two cents
Most of my relationships (if you can even call it that) fall under casual dating. Maybe it isn't even, cus my very first one was when I was 13-14 and really, I had no clue what to do @-) Second one at 15 wasn't much different except it was more... Uhm... Wild? The last one was just cutesy cutesy flirting and this guy was a lot more 'experienced'. Haha.
My last relationship ended kinda badly. This was my first "normal dating" one, but I don't think he got the memo (and really, I thought I made it clear cus I repeated it so many times :/). He acted very serious about it and I just wasn't ready to like... Fully commit to something incredibly serious that he'd like. Not that he'd push me into it or anything. He never did, he was just... Sad? about it. I mean, he'd talk about marriage and we're what, 16, 17-18? :|
From the get-go, part of me kinda knew this relationship wouldn't last long. I mean, I didn't even expect it to last long. I was just going for a normal teenage relationship, something (this sounds so naive/dumb but hey) like in the movies. Haha. If I knew what it would be like, I never would've said yes.
Ok, my original post was TOO long so... Basically, he turned out to be really needy, obsessive, and insecure. And I feel partially to blame since I know he liked me more than I liked him. I mean, yeah I DID like him but not to that extent... And eventually his clingy-ness pushed me away. I do feel guilty but I'd like to think we both learned something from this and this would help him grow as a person.
Most of my relationships (if you can even call it that) fall under casual dating. Maybe it isn't even, cus my very first one was when I was 13-14 and really, I had no clue what to do @-) Second one at 15 wasn't much different except it was more... Uhm... Wild? The last one was just cutesy cutesy flirting and this guy was a lot more 'experienced'. Haha.
My last relationship ended kinda badly. This was my first "normal dating" one, but I don't think he got the memo (and really, I thought I made it clear cus I repeated it so many times :/). He acted very serious about it and I just wasn't ready to like... Fully commit to something incredibly serious that he'd like. Not that he'd push me into it or anything. He never did, he was just... Sad? about it. I mean, he'd talk about marriage and we're what, 16, 17-18? :|
From the get-go, part of me kinda knew this relationship wouldn't last long. I mean, I didn't even expect it to last long. I was just going for a normal teenage relationship, something (this sounds so naive/dumb but hey) like in the movies. Haha. If I knew what it would be like, I never would've said yes.
Ok, my original post was TOO long so... Basically, he turned out to be really needy, obsessive, and insecure. And I feel partially to blame since I know he liked me more than I liked him. I mean, yeah I DID like him but not to that extent... And eventually his clingy-ness pushed me away. I do feel guilty but I'd like to think we both learned something from this and this would help him grow as a person.