Dabiene Caristiana
Your friendly neighborhood weirdo
Honestly? I'm old fasioned. I agree with pretty much most if not all your points Znow (my jaw started to drop actually on how alike our views are.)
I know a guy. We have been classmates/friends since Kindergarten. That's over a decade. I know the signs that he shows says he likes me, and does want to date. My father however, has other ideas, and same with myself. I respect his opinions, and they matter a lot to me (there is more in the history to him and other stuff but I wont get into that.). He doesn't seem too keen on him. The guy is accused of breaking my guitar when I was 8 (yes it was that long ago, dad knows how to hold a grudge, albeit rarely) and he also accused him of taking 5 bucks when he was in the house. But he gave 5 bucks still saying he didn't take it.
I'll admit, I have some feelings toward him, but it's torn between friendship and a brother like relationship. We've stuck up for each other good times and bad. Heck I've scolded him when he does something stupid. I'm almost like a sister like person lol. (Not including the times with my female friends who also scold him for doing something stupid XD) And we also banter back in forth. Since I'm sarcastic, and he can be a smart alic, it works. It just does.
What I like is that he doesn't pressure me into anything. But only if it's for my well being (like me being a hermit and staying in the house, he and the other girls will actually kidnap me and have a part at someones house) Haha, I got good friends. I'm not into that smoochy stuff either, especially when you aren't even dating or dating right off the bat.
But even though he likes me, he has never asked me out, except when this weird kid pushed us together (not literally) and forced us to say yes to dating. It wasn't official to my standards and the guy knew that, and politely said, "You don't have to do this if you don't want to." He didn't say we, his tone was more concerned for my opinion. Which was sweet.
But I have school that I need to focus on, and I believe I'm actually too young to date. All this kissing and smooching in Junior high, or even High school doesn't appeal to me. Meh, I got a year or two before I decide my future. That includes relationships.
I'm just happy the guy is patient. Y'know you don't see that much, where I live. If a girl rejects them, the guys try to get revenge or put a cold shoulder out and just annoy the crap out of the girls. Not all of them though. Some of em are gentlemen. And I'm glad. Takes a lot of sting out of the drama in School.
Sorry if I offended anyone, if I did that is, idk. XD
I know a guy. We have been classmates/friends since Kindergarten. That's over a decade. I know the signs that he shows says he likes me, and does want to date. My father however, has other ideas, and same with myself. I respect his opinions, and they matter a lot to me (there is more in the history to him and other stuff but I wont get into that.). He doesn't seem too keen on him. The guy is accused of breaking my guitar when I was 8 (yes it was that long ago, dad knows how to hold a grudge, albeit rarely) and he also accused him of taking 5 bucks when he was in the house. But he gave 5 bucks still saying he didn't take it.
I'll admit, I have some feelings toward him, but it's torn between friendship and a brother like relationship. We've stuck up for each other good times and bad. Heck I've scolded him when he does something stupid. I'm almost like a sister like person lol. (Not including the times with my female friends who also scold him for doing something stupid XD) And we also banter back in forth. Since I'm sarcastic, and he can be a smart alic, it works. It just does.
What I like is that he doesn't pressure me into anything. But only if it's for my well being (like me being a hermit and staying in the house, he and the other girls will actually kidnap me and have a part at someones house) Haha, I got good friends. I'm not into that smoochy stuff either, especially when you aren't even dating or dating right off the bat.
But even though he likes me, he has never asked me out, except when this weird kid pushed us together (not literally) and forced us to say yes to dating. It wasn't official to my standards and the guy knew that, and politely said, "You don't have to do this if you don't want to." He didn't say we, his tone was more concerned for my opinion. Which was sweet.
But I have school that I need to focus on, and I believe I'm actually too young to date. All this kissing and smooching in Junior high, or even High school doesn't appeal to me. Meh, I got a year or two before I decide my future. That includes relationships.
I'm just happy the guy is patient. Y'know you don't see that much, where I live. If a girl rejects them, the guys try to get revenge or put a cold shoulder out and just annoy the crap out of the girls. Not all of them though. Some of em are gentlemen. And I'm glad. Takes a lot of sting out of the drama in School.
Sorry if I offended anyone, if I did that is, idk. XD