Squirrel_killer- if you're going to use the carriage driver as your trump card then I'm going to use the High elf (Thalmor race mind you) Niranye as my trump card, and since shes considered neutral territory I also find her source of information to be reliable and canon.
"Are you treated as badly as the Dark Elves?"
"It was difficult at first. The Nords of this city are, at best, suspicious of outsiders. But in time I made the right friends and proved myself useful enough that they don't give me trouble anymore. The Dunmer are too proud and naive to see the way things truly are, and so they continue to dwell in that slum."
So tell me how come you don't see Rolff Stone-Fist and his friend, Angrenor Once-Honored, harassing her? and calling her a Thalmor spy? How come their not making radical slurs directly to her? If anything she should be in their direct radar, since she is after all a High elf who just came in from Summerset isle.