I agree with psyk0, when it comes to selecting your race the starting skill bonuses really don't matter. The racial bonuses and your preference for looks is key. I play the "spell/sword" playstyle which you are looking to get into.
I use a High Elf for the extra Magicka and the Magicka regen. Orcs are good for their damage increasing Berserker Rage and Red Guards for their Stamina regening Adrenaline Rush. Bretons may very well have the best racials with the 25% Magic Resist and Dragonskin, Absorb 50% of the magicka from hostile spells for 60 seconds