DrunkenMage
Intoxicated Arch-Mage
She kinda does need to play it cool a little bit more. Everyone is a bit tense with the whole civil war thing, but they are hiding it because a leader can't let their followers know that they are as worried as they are. Or maybe she's just trying to seem attentive and receptive. IDK. I always thought it was interesting that she has a different posture from the other Jarls.
I'd like to role play her one day just to try and get into her head.
I think her posture is more that of a noble lady, she was married to the High King. Think high born women were well educated in those types of days on how to sit, how to act etc. She is young and the rest of the Jarls are older and don't have as much care about things/aren't that high up in the political world, they are Jarls of Holds, being wife to the High King could mean seeing the Emperor, Kings and Queens of High Rock, Princes & Princesses etc. Her posture just says noble birth, one who would be surrounded more by high ranking nobles of the Empire. Her status as Torgg's queen could also mean use in political negotiations in other Provinces, when she was more groomed into her duty. High King I believe is the vassal of the Emperor, which is why Ulfric could be charged with High Treason for the killing of the vassal of the Emperor, which is the same as an attack on the Emperor himself. So she is quite high in the political world, while Jarls are simply owners land, much like Counts in Cyrodiil.