Stephen Daidalus
Well-Known Member
In a recent thread that discussed victim blaming, offensive protesting, and the role of men in combating sexual violence, some women were enraged by the idea that they might need male assistance in confronting issues of violence against physically more vulnerable people.
I asserted, in a very blunt and exaggerated way, that the proper response to a man with a sign that told women they deserved to be raped was a fist in the face. Most people disagreed, sometimes vehemently so. I'm not generally an advocate of violence, so I get that response. On the other hand, I do not believe that ignoring such protests or ignoring any such speech in daily life is at all a useful response. I don't think I communicated that very adroitly, to say the least. But this video does a good job of it. It's a 19 minute long TED talk, but worth watching.
"In the end, what will hurt the most is not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends." -- Martin Luther King
I asserted, in a very blunt and exaggerated way, that the proper response to a man with a sign that told women they deserved to be raped was a fist in the face. Most people disagreed, sometimes vehemently so. I'm not generally an advocate of violence, so I get that response. On the other hand, I do not believe that ignoring such protests or ignoring any such speech in daily life is at all a useful response. I don't think I communicated that very adroitly, to say the least. But this video does a good job of it. It's a 19 minute long TED talk, but worth watching.
"In the end, what will hurt the most is not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends." -- Martin Luther King