I'll give you the benefit of the doubt in saying you have not read the novels, or have much of an idea about the Mede dynasty.
Even if I had read the Novels, I doubt it would make any difference. Given the situation as it stands now, Emperor Titus Mede II's Empire (TMII) is doomed. You can say whatever you want about how great it was, but it's doomed and so is he. His is an Empire dying ~ However, it is not dead yet. Though some might consider just writing it off, I look to the example set by Talos. In truth, I think Talos did what he thought was best for Tamriel even though in the end, he became a little overzealous going after the Dominion, which is causing problems today. However, aside from this, he set an example where by every Emperor is judged. Although TMI and TMII tried, the Empire is not getting any better. Like a sick patient in the hospital. Their medicine is keeping the patient alive but not curing the cancer which is spreading throughout not just the Empire, but all of Tamriel. Indeed, TMII gets assassinated in the game along with probably his entire administration. The Mede line dies with him, so what of the Empire?
The fact you believe leaving the Imperial City was a bad thing. That instead of fighting a last stand which would only end up in defeat with the death of the Emperor and the loss of the Cyrodiil/Skyrim legions would have been better is perhaps one of the most questionable things you have posted.
Pelinal Whitestrake taught men to STAND and FIGHT. I find it questionable that someone as powerful as the Emperor in Tamriel would rather save himself and run from his problems rather than face his Elven enemy like a man. And by taking up after him you are none different. Maybe the Thalmor lost at IC, but we stood and made you and your false Emperor pay for every. single. piece. of that city. Lord Naarafin was more of a man than your Emperor. And rather than sign the treaty then, out of his own pettiness TMII leaves Lord Naarafin to die in a cage, above a tower that was stolen from the Elves. When TMII was defeated, we offered him counsel and tried to help all of us find a peaceful exit to the war. This is what happens when TMII gets what he wants, when he gets the High-Ground. Rather than treat his enemies with the same respect shown, he's turns out very childish and enjoys inflicting pain on others. He's a sadist. Just like those people in Skyrim who made the mistake of questioning his Empire, questioning an Emperor who treats his subjects like the enemy, yet can't stand against the enemy himself. Win/lose never entered the mind of Pelinal or Ysgramor or any of the Ysmir's, as some of them marched into battle knowing FULL WELL they were marching to their death with no guarantee of success.
Empire is full of different types and races of women. Unless of course you do prefer the Stormcloak women who like to call you their brother.
Civilians, Stormcloaks and Talos worshipers (Imperial Citizens) locked away in cages like animals ~ With no trial. Dehydrated, left to starve, bleeding from torture wounds, mental illness from solitary confinement, probably crying out for their loved ones as their bodies are left to rote before death. (Death in this case being more merciful than Cyrodil justice.) Nords and their children who made the ultimate sacrifice for an Empire who rewards them by allowing Thalmor to run freely and unchecked thru their land, Skyrim. Is this the same Empire? This one which allows Thalmor soldiers to terrorize and torment the very people who saved it from it's enemies in the past. This the Empire? And YOU as an Imperial, one of the highest ranking Imperials here (And Dagmar's Padawan) have NO RESPECT for the Nords who made it possible for you to be an Imperial today.
I don't care that this is going on in Skyrim. Big deal. The same pl*ps going on in Skyrim could happen to *any* Province in the "Empire". Highrock and even Cyrodil aren't safe. What happens tomorrow? Do the Elves take your business your homes? Your very lives?
When I was an Imperial, I had a very different outlook on things. The only Empire remotely worth fighting for is the Empire of the Septims, the Empire of Talos. I honor them. Seeing how TMII is finally brought to justice by the Dark Brotherhood (DB), it's possible I could live with saving the Empire as I'm concerned the Nords under Ulfric are also too extreme, however these are extreme times. In the game, I'll save the Empire for Talos's sake, for the sake that by the grace of Akatosh, this Empire might reform itself and one day be a proper representative of the 9 Divines again. Besides, it's ok. If I am wrong the Empire won't last during the next round and the Dominion will rule instead, with the Provinces making a run for it, which is alright with me given the alternative to being ruled by a spineless sadist with no spiritual connection to the Empire's roots.
So you are an Imperial of the Mede Empire who defends it's failure, which ends in death for anyone who follows it and I was an Imperial of Talos, who seeks Empire-wide reforms and accountability for the past failures, with no guarantee of success. In not one of your posts have I ever seen you question the corruption and lack of human dignity resulting from Titus Mede's Administration, either of them. I have a conscience and would rather Tamriel end up in the arms of the Dominion whom of which I know WILL stand their ground, they WILL stand up for their people. I know what the Dominion has done, has not always been pretty, however those Blades and even Talos had no business meddling in the affairs of the Dominion. And they paid for it, still paying for it and their blood is on their heads. If TMII could not stand up to the Dominion, he should not have instigated the war. So ultimately, the blood is on his hands. And the ban on Talos is very similar to the ban on Necromancy, yet almost everyone was ok with it, although both are wrong.
Only a Dragonborn Emperor born of Akatosh and Talos can save the Empire. All who stand against him stand against the Divines.