Personally, I love Skyrim. There isn't a thing about the game that I don't like, other than the exception of a quest that I was on glitched and now cannot be completed, but other than that, I love the game; I'm addicted to it.
With what you've posted, it seems to me that you're expecting too much from Bethesda, and from a video game... It's never going to contain gameplay mechanics that will make it play the way it would in real life, and the graphics are never going to be as outstanding as looking down on the world around you from the top of Mt. Everest; it's a video game.
The bottom line is that Bethesda put a lot of time, thought, work, and money into this game, and the majority of people who have played it are in love with it. I actually congratulate them on the vast improvements that they've made in comparison to Oblivion, and I hope that when the next Elder Scrolls game is created and released, that they improve even further (which, with the current development of next-gen consoles, they probably will).
Perhaps the most outstanding part of the entire game is that Bethesda actually listened to the concerns and suggestions that fans of Oblivion had expressed, and did their best to incorporate those concerns and suggestions into Skyrim. What more could you possibly ask for from the company? A pure and profound masterpiece; a work of video game art? I think you need to come down from the pedestal that you're on, and recognize Skyrim for the amazing game that it is...