dunklunk
You seem a decent fellow. I hate to die.
Well if you attack the DB. I know I accidentally killed that "spider" in the dark brotherhood thinking it would kill me, but it was ACTUALLY friendly. Astrid got mad with the other DB npcs and attacked me. I dont think Babette was one because I swore I saw her sitting down in the chair eating/drinking the WHOLE time.
I guess if you stole or attacked in Oblivion then you would get kicked out or have to pay. Never tried it though
You killed her spider and Babette never came after you?! I would think she'd get all medieval on you. And why would Astrid care about the spider? It's not like it was a mascot or something.
And btw, did the spider make the trip to Dawnstar Sanctuary, or did those Imperial dogs kill it? I don't recall seeing it at the new sanctuary, but I coulda missed it.