I don't think you are the only one with OCD Skyrim syndrome, after all you create your character and are with him/her for a long time. The worse thing you can do is to keep restarting. I hope you realise that I am not being sarcastic when I say, go out, have a breath of fresh air and think about it. Not stats, not numbers, but think of what race you like best, start thinking of names (always a good place to start, there are many tools out there to help you). That's all you really need as you will lose nothing by changing your mind over professions in the game, if unsure, store the perks. Spend some time on creating the 'look' of your character. It will be unique, others may look similar but the chances of another player having exactly the same look as you is remote. Then play, don't fret if things don't go your way (hey, I'm a bard). This is YOUR character. Take the rough with the smooth, enjoy it!