How to side with the Blades and Paarthurnax

[Chance]

Ok so I am not going to give any spoilers bit does anyone know how to side with the blades and paarthurnax. I dont want to not have the blades help but I dont want to do what the blades ask of me.

 

[Nameless1]

I dont think you can get around it. You can confront Paarthurnax about it but that doesnt accomplish anything. Just pick a side i suppose

 

[dysomniak]

I've been postponing that decision myself. You should talk to the Graybeards about it if you haven't already. Bring it up the next time you go in for a word-wall quest. I know I'll have to decide eventually, but for now there are plenty of other things to pursue.

 

[Chance]

Yeah I mean the Blades have been helpful. But I like hunting dragons with the blades and I like talking and meditating on Words of power with Paarthurnax