It doesn't sound like it. Anime and manga characters are, I found, very stylized. The girls and women are all very feminine which is why I'm attracted to them. The boys have that androgynous look that you're talking about hole the men are very masculine. Everything's taken to a colorful extreme. I'm really not that interested in anime or manga but I've alwYs found the art style interesting.
Teenage girls and boys have a huge place in anime for some reason and females find that art style really endearing for some reason. You're feeling exactly what you were intended to feel.