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Gah, I just messed myself up. I'm going to take a nap.
Rest well
Still, I think the difference here is a matter of distinction: mediation versus moderation (in the forum management sense).
I can and have performed mediation here. I do not consider mediation to be up for discussion because generally it involves private matters and no discipline. This kind of falls in the "out of the kindness of my heart" realm because, strictly speaking, mediation is not in my official job description. I do it because I do think it helps the forum. But I do it because I'm Rayven and because someone invited me to help, not because I am a moderator.
A lot of people get "people attacking my point" and "people attacking my person" mixed up a lot, including myself just now I suggested my whole method to help distinguish that, but I'm sure you've dealt with that before so everything I've said was worthless, and I am thus taking a nap.
I agree with most things here. Some I don't.
Pornography, 18+ discussions, speaking to minors in a sexually suggestive way, etc...all of those should immediately be reported. (duh)
I agree with most things here. Some I don't.
As far as discussion of one's personal life, I don't see how that's wrong. A lot of people use the SB or similar chat boxes in other forums to talk/get advice about their personal life. Sometimes they don't have anyone else to talk to and they trust or respect other forum members to give them the advice or consolation they are looking for. Now, if they are talking about how they "got it on" with their boyfriend or girlfriend last night in great detail, I can see how that would be offensive.
There should be a limit to the amount of a GIF and pics posted in the SB. Sometimes we get internet lags because of it
Now there's something else I want to discuss about SB etiquette:
If you see something that "offends" you, please be sure to think before bothering Rayven about it. What is offensive to you might not be a big deal for 90% of people on the planet. People have different ideas about what is offensive and what isn't, and people have different ideas about what is humorous. If someone is making truly offensive remarks (personal attacks, racist/sexist remarks, etc) then they should be reported.
Just think to yourself, though: If this is something that someone can't really get in trouble for in any other kind of public forum, is it really worth reporting? If it's something minor and you don't think the moderator can actually do anything about it, for etiquette's sake it would be better if you just nicely asked the person to stop. Running to the mod every time you see something you don't like is poor etiquette too.
I agree with most things here. Some I don't.
As far as discussion of one's personal life, I don't see how that's wrong. A lot of people use the SB or similar chat boxes in other forums to talk/get advice about their personal life. Sometimes they don't have anyone else to talk to and they trust or respect other forum members to give them the advice or consolation they are looking for. Now, if they are talking about how they "got it on" with their boyfriend or girlfriend last night in great detail, I can see how that would be offensive.
You have other options. You can temporarily put posters on ignore. You can get a free adblock plugin for your browser and block the images. I do one or the other depending on the situation.There should be a limit to the amount of a GIF and pics posted in the SB. Sometimes we get internet lags because of it
I appreciate the thought but I'm not online as much these days. I also kind of got tired of moderating forums years ago which Rayven already knows. It is a responsibility that requires a measure of dedication which is why I appreciate what moderators do and am quick to jump down someone's throat when they are critical of moderator actions and decisions.This maybe slight off-topic, Rayven but if theirs ever going to be a new moderator nomination I would want Dagmar or Docta Corvina (Maybe both?) to be nominated for the position.
This maybe slight off-topic, Rayven but if theirs ever going to be a new moderator nomination I would want Dagmar or Docta Corvina (Maybe both?) to be nominated for the position.
Both of these ladies would make a fine addition to the SkyrimForums staffs. Both are level headed and are fair, base on what I've observed from the imperials vs Stormcloak thread and on the SB.
- In the S.B no submitting underage girls/boys photos (It's creepy)
As far as discussion of one's personal life, I don't see how that's wrong. A lot of people use the SB or similar chat boxes in other forums to talk/get advice about their personal life. Sometimes they don't have anyone else to talk to and they trust or respect other forum members to give them the advice or consolation they are looking for. Now, if they are talking about how they "got it on" with their boyfriend or girlfriend last night in great detail, I can see how that would be offensive.
Another etiquette suggestion: all bacon must be shared with Anouck and I. In return, we share coffee and cookies.