kyleekay
Well-Known Member
I'm just a teenager, so a lot of this is probably going to seem irrelevant and unimportant, but here goes: So there is a girl. Who I've been close friends with for a while now. And over time, I've fallen in love with her (I know, love is something a youngster like me wouldn't know about). Well, she's been dating this girl for close to nine months now (she's bisexual). And they always break up and get back together. Like, it's a constant cycle of emotional pain in their relationship. Well, one day I was talking to her and I confessed my emotions. She told me that if she was ever single, she would give me a chance. And it seemed like they had broken up for good two days ago. Only to find out last night that they were back together yet again. Needless to say, that was one of the worst nights of my life. I love her, you know? She looks great no matter what she says, and I'll admit (she will too), she isn'ts the most emotionally stable person. I'm just really frustrated with all of this. And it only adds to my minor depression. And there you have it.
My advice? She's saying she would "give you a chance" because she enjoys your attention but at the same time doesn't want to hurt you. Trust me, when I was in high school I used that line a few times (I'm better now, promise ). Start to move on- I don't think this will end in your favor.
Edit: Move on from the romantic part. No need to ruin the friendship. Good luck!