Awlrighty ppl and a good evening to u
Lydia was my 1st bit of Skyrim female action but she died on me quite early on in the game before i knew about marriage so when i found out i married Aela as i joined the "Companions" and then the "Companions Circle" which is only exclusive to Werewolves so we had a bit in common you know bad breath,long nails,furry nostrils, She is the best by a long shot ( Good bow technique )...BUT be prepared to do ENDLESS
Animal Exterminations for her.
And if you do marry her you will need a plunger as the amount of hair she leaves in the shower of a morning is shocking.
My second choice would be Ysolda ..a very fine lady indeed and always very pleasant to me in Whiterun market as i run past her on a daily basis also one hell of a cook id imagine , all i get from Aela is a crusty Apple pie or one of them sweets on a twig looks like a Wrong Shiesh Kebab.
I think there is a same sex or same species type of thing also available but i never went down that path im Exit only
Who ever you go for they all have some perks you wouldn't get if you were a lone wolf ( excuse me being a werewolf i say wolf alot ) i used to be a werewolf but im alright NooOOOoOOOoOoOOW *Cough* howling is so hard with this bloomin cold i have
Good luck dude Happy Hunting of the Lady kind
and wiv your name " HardCore" id deffo go for Aela