Relationship advice please!

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Evil Renegader

Im not Renegader. im a Troll.
> Me be going out with a girl a year younger than me.
> We started going out yesterday.
> She wanted to go see the fault in the starts.
> Tells her mom.
> Her mom wants to meet me.
> Im a very busy person, can't make weekdays and i can rarely make weekends.

I have no problem with meeting her parents, i am a polite, likable and mature person. Its just that she wants to meet me first before we actually go on a date.. And im kinda scared that she would want to meet my parents and my old folks are kinda embarrasing :S so what should i do? gimme some advice :p
 

JoeReese

Well-Known Member
I don't want to sound flippant, but it really is this simple at the end of the day. Relationships include the family. With rare exceptions, there's no getting around that, and you can't pretend your family is something they're not, any more than you could pretend to be something you're not. I don't think it's unreasonable for a parent to want to know who their kid is spending time with, especially these days, so make some time for her. If nothing else, it will ease her burden with mom. You don't have to encourage her to meet your parents, but if she wants to then trying to delay may cause more problems than it solves, and it will still be bothering you the entire time. My advice: Take the shot and let the chips fall where they may. If she'd dump you over who your parents are, is she really what you want?
 

Mwhals

Active Member
I always say to be yourself. If she or her parents don't like the real you, then she isn't the right one for you.
 

Blake_mcBlake

New Member
Soooo can I just point this out that "going out" for a week doesn't constitute being able to get cheated on. Furthermore...take one of her friends out. Works every time

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JoeReese

Well-Known Member
Soooo can I just point this out that "going out" for a week doesn't constitute being able to get cheated on. Furthermore...take one of her friends out. Works every time

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I don't subscribe to that belief. Being cheated on involves acknowledging that you're in an exclusive relationship with them, and then going behind your back. It doesn't matter how long you've been in the relationship, how far away they are, how old or young, or even the severity or duration of their activities. You're either in a relationship or you're not, and if they go behind your back with someone else, they've cheated. That it's a new relationship certainly applies to whether one might be mildly frustrated or totally devastated, as it does to whether or not one should be surprised at the instance, but it doesn't change the nature of it. Cheating is cheating.
 

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