So I started a new character, and basically the first thing I did was to go to Windhelm and marry Revyn Sadri. He's just so sleek, man, no wonder he can train my speech. Seeing this was so early in my game I didn't own a house yet, and after the wedding I told him we could live in his house, AKA in Sadri's Used Wares. The house looks beat, but worst of all, there is only a single bed. See my problem? I remember with Ysolda (whom I married before), I had a plopston of things to say to her. Her normal dialogue options from before marriage, and the normal "give me money" "cook me some food" and "lets move". After adoption I could also ask about the kids. With Sadri I only have two options, which is begging about money or food. I can't move, he doesn't acknowledge that we got a daughter (probably because they don't live together), and he lost all previous dialogue options. Why is this? Does he just not want to live in whiterun? Or is it because the people of Windhelm desperately need a general goods merchant, so they won't let him move?