I don't feel it's my place to judge anyone simply because of what sort of mods they make or download. It would be overly presumptuous of me to assume that just because anyone does make a skimpy armor mod or downloads something I might think is questionable that it makes them pathetic, dirty or somehow beneath me. I'm sure there are examples out there in everyday life of ordinary upstanding people who indulge in a bit of kink behind closed doors and are otherwise no worse off because of it.
The same thing applies to Skyrim. It is just a video game--a toy intended for entertainment purposes. It also happens to be a very modifiable game, so what one person does to enhance their own experience is their own business and none of mine. Judging by the number of mods and downloads, there is definitely a demand for skimpy outfits and adult themed mods so I can hardly blame others for meeting it or doing what they enjoy doing.
On the other hand, I do sympathize with some of the complaints many others have and i too would like to see more effort put into other kinds of mods especially more male armors but it's not like the options aren't there at all. There still are plenty of amazingly done choices to pick from and they do exist. We all have a right to complain of course, but I would hope that those of us who do gripe about it at least understand we aren't entitled to expect modders to do something if it isn't their intention.
At least that's the way I feel about it. I would love for someone to make the ultimate mod or armor set that just so happens to cater to every one of my own specific ideals of what is aesthetically pleasing or fun to play, but unless by chance someone happens to develop such a fanciful thing, I'm out of luck. The silver dragon armor comes close but gosh darn it, I just hate that "moth head" helmet.