Hi, iv looked all over the internet an i could not get a good solid answer from anywhere. Heres the scenario. I married Ysalda early on in the game for a place to store my stuff and an easy way to earn money, but now 20 levels later i have found a character who i can married who i feel is better suited for my character. Iv killed Ysalda two times (Killed her then loaded and killed her a different way) Nether time the courier came and gave me the letter saying shes dead (witch is the only way to get remarried.) The first time i killed her, i killed her in my home as a wear wolf (just me and her in the house) and i devoured her. After waiting a while and doing a few quests, there was no sign of the courier so I loaded to before i killed her. The 2nd time i killed her i shot two fireballs at her in the town square of Whiterun, i waited for even longer this time and did some more quests and still no courier. (I payed off the 1000 gold bounty the second time.) So am i doing something wrong? I don't want to do a bunch more quest while waiting for the courier just to find out i did something wrong and wasted my time. All i want to know is if i can kill her and re married? and if so how? Thank you for your time.