ok, I know this is old, but I found this thread via google, looking things up for my own Demonhunter.
first off, there isn't a "right" or "wrong" way to play I believe. It's not a team game, it's a single player immersive RPG.
for example, I created a character that I believe Crookskin would feel has no point or purpose in Skyrim. My character Broc.
now for roleplaying sake, his "glass" armor, while being a Nord, at Kodlak's funeral is a wee bit out of place. But even at level 24, he was very capable and viable.
Two-handed Greatsword
Light Armor
Smithing
Enchanting
at 24, that's literally where all his perks went. Now he's a OMGLEVEL 108 Paladin, but that's neither here nor there.
Trick with Broc was simple - don't get hit, dodge and avoid, use the light armor to its advantage, and lop heads off!
And he does it so purdy too.
and his health? I capped it at 200. Everything went into Stamina past that, until about level 80 or so, I made him a true Paladin with Resto skills and gave him some Magicka. By the time I fought Alduin with Broc, he was level 45 - 200 health, 450 stamina, level 80 two-handed, level 45 light armor (note the low number, he
didn't get hit alot) and he literally dropped Alduin like a bag of rocks.
and my Demonhunter?
I use runes as my "melee."
Melee beasty charges in on me, I drop a rune, and keep running.
It's wicked entertaining, and I've gotten really good at knowing my surroundings, and running backwards
I feel like I'm in hockey or football again lol