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Lady Redpool the Unlifer

Pyro, Spirits Connoisseur, and Soulless Anarchist
Hi.
If you're looking at this then either you know RedNeK, or you are nosy. Either way, I've got something to tell you.
This forum means alot to me. The community here has been a relatively safe place for me over several years of hardship and adversity. A support group that I didn't have to go find, and that I didn't know I needed. Through this forum I met my girlfriend, a couple of very good real-life friends, and established some of my most valued relationships. So, with a few necessary exceptions, I'm coming to you guys first with this.

My life is about to undergo some big changes in the coming months and years, and I don't want to hide it here.

I am a transgendered woman.

I was born a man, but I have never felt like one. All throughout my childhood I thought I should have been born a woman, and never have I felt right in my own skin. Only recently was I able to have the conversation and consider that I am actually a woman trapped in a man's body. This is largely due to being in a much more stable living situation, and being with someone who is understanding enough to accept me as I am. A situation that I wouldn't be in if it weren't for the community here.

I have started the transition. I am wearing women's clothing, working on my voice, doing everything that I can to pass as a woman and looking into medically pursuing becoming a woman. I have asked that those that know me at home refer to me as "her" and "she" and I would like to ask the same of all of you.

Just because my gender is different, doesn't mean I am. I'm still the same person, just with a different pronoun. I'm still the person you've all come to know.

This community is something of a family to me, and though all of this scares the hell out of me, I needed to tell you all.
 

Seanu Reaves

The Shogun of Gaming
Long as you are happy, I'm standing by you.

Hope it's an easy transition. And you know I'm gonna support cha.

:D
 

The Phoenician

Shiney, let's be bad guys.
You're still gonna burn plops, right.

Seriously though I wish you the best of luck with the challenges you are and will be facing. you've always been cool peeps to me and that's what matters most in my opinion.
 

Mercutio

Assistant Regional Manager
Yo red yall are always gonna be a badass to me. Keep calm and flame on
Did I just make a keep calm meme In 2016? Wtf just ignore this last bit
 
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dunklunk

You seem a decent fellow. I hate to die.
Ditto with what's been said before, Red. Bottom line is as long as you're happy. Life's too short for anything but. <3

Cheers, mate! :beermug:
 

Deadpool.

OG Forum member
I would have never thought.

I wish you luck for your transition to female, but even though I am a derranged, awkward, unsupportive (just find it hard to find empathy sometimes) person by nature.. I am a good listener and I offer you my ears.. Or my eyes in this case (I'm reading lol)..

I hope that you will still be smacking me with lead pipes in the SB ( And no I'm not into that stuff btw) and setting me on fire as per usual.

Hope everything turns out as planned..

-Deadpool (AKA: DP, Mister Deagle-Double-Gee, Mr.World-wide)
 

Kohlar the Unkilled

Time for some ale
By Mara, not a position I could imagine being in. What an interesting adventure it will be. Though we don't know each other well, count me among those who support you.

Tis the Scrolls that bind us :beermug:
 

Mighty Pecan Pie

The secret American
Hi.
If you're looking at this then either you know RedNeK, or you are nosy. Either way, I've got something to tell you.
This forum means alot to me. The community here has been a relatively safe place for me over several years of hardship and adversity. A support group that I didn't have to go find, and that I didn't know I needed. Through this forum I met my girlfriend, a couple of very good real-life friends, and established some of my most valued relationships. So, with a few necessary exceptions, I'm coming to you guys first with this.

My life is about to undergo some big changes in the coming months and years, and I don't want to hide it here.

I am a transgendered woman.

I was born a man, but I have never felt like one. All throughout my childhood I thought I should have been born a woman, and never have I felt right in my own skin. Only recently was I able to have the conversation and consider that I am actually a woman trapped in a man's body. This is largely due to being in a much more stable living situation, and being with someone who is understanding enough to accept me as I am. A situation that I wouldn't be in if it weren't for the community here.

I have started the transition. I am wearing women's clothing, working on my voice, doing everything that I can to pass as a woman and looking into medically pursuing becoming a woman. I have asked that those that know me at home refer to me as "her" and "she" and I would like to ask the same of all of you.

Just because my gender is different, doesn't mean I am. I'm still the same person, just with a different pronoun. I'm still the person you've all come to know.

This community is something of a family to me, and though all of this scares the hell out of me, I needed to tell you all.

Hey Red!

I just read this cause Kyzie showed me after I thought you were on Cordy's account.

I think you did good on sharing this with us, at least I really respect you for it. I have no idea how it is, nor do I understand it really..
But damn, I'll support you! Everyone has the right to be who they are.
 

Harc

Big Hog
Much support bud! Man or woman, doesn't matter to me, you're still the same good ol' Red. Best of luck to your transition madam :D
 

Lady Redpool the Unlifer

Pyro, Spirits Connoisseur, and Soulless Anarchist
Much support bud! Man or woman, doesn't matter to me, you're still the same good ol' Red. Best of luck to your transition madam :D
*Madame
:p
 

Melee

I'm back, bitches
I don't know why I didn't see this til now, but you've got my support as well! I'm glad you feel comfortable enough to open up to us, and I'm glad you're now in a relationship and place that lets you be you. I'm so happy for you!!!!! :D

*throws you a big giant celebratory fireball*
 

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