I just noticed this thread and wanted to put in my two cents.
First of all, let me just say that while I don't use mods - I don't have a PC that can run Skyrim, let alone modded Skyrim - I follow the mod community fairly closely for the day that I am able to run it. I am female and I play mostly female characters. So perhaps I am a bit biased.
Here's my opinion. I don't like the Nexus skimpy armors. I do however support the modders and players rights to have them. Just because I do not personally agree with them or like them doesn't mean I want to have them banned. To me, Skyrim is all about player choice. If a player wants to have a skimpy armored woman by their side in their adventures, fine. If they want to play a skimpy armored female, fine. It's not my game, it's yours. And not that this is always the case, I know it isn't, but I would rather they do something like that in-game than in real life. Maybe they have something to work out. Better they do it in-game than in life.
I do the same. I work out some issues in games. For example I am not physically healthy at the moment, so I like to play really strong female characters. Nothing wrong with that.
So to boil it down, if it floats your boat, have at it. Doesn't mean I have to agree with or like it.
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